EMOTIONS: THE INVISIBLE ENEMY
HI GUYS TODAY I AM GONNA BE TALKING ABOUT AN INVISIBLE ENEMY WHICH MOST OF THE TIME PUTS US DOWN IN VARIOUS FIELDS BE IT HEALTH, FINANCE,RELATIONSHIPS ETC. HUMAN BEINGS ARE EMOTIONAL CREATURES !!!
EVERY MOMENT TO MOMENT IS DECISION IS DIRECTED BY THE EMOTIONS IN MAJORITY OF THE PEOPLE.
FROM CLOTHES WE WEAR , TO THE FOOD WE EAT, TO MAKING FRIENDS AND CREATING RELATIONSHIP MOST OF THE TIME IT'S GUIDED BY EMOTIONAL STATE WE ARE IN.
BUT THE PROBLEM IS THAT THEY ARE NOT VISIBLE .
FOR EXAMPLE
U LOVE UR PARENTS AND U WANNA TELL IT TO A ROBOT .HOW CAN U TELL?
IT'S A RUBBISH QUESTION. LOVE IS NOT SOMETHING TANGIBLE WHICH U CAN SEE OR HEAR IT'S A FEELING THE PERSON FEELS WHENEVER THE NAME OF THAT PERSON ARISES WITH IMAGE IN MIND
U CAN TEACH THE BEHAVIORS ON HOW TO ACT WHEN CERTAIN EMOTIONS ARISE BUT U CANNOT TEACH THE PERSON TO FEEL THE EMOTIONS INSTANTLY.
THAT'S WHY PEOPLE ARE DISAPPOINTED THESE DAYS .
LACK OF UNDERSTANDING CREATES ANXIETY WHICH FURTHER TRIGGERS A CHAIN OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS CREATING MORE PROBLEMS FOR THEMSELVES.
PEOPLE GET HURT MOST OF THE TIME BECAUSE THE PERSON FAILS TO UNDERSTAND THE EMOTIONAL STATE A PERSON IS IN AND KEEPS ON CHANTING THEIR OPINIONS .
I WILL BE DISCUSSING ONE EMOTION IN THIS POST WHICH CREATES MORE DAMAGE IN A PERSON'S LIFE THAN ANY OTHER THING IN THE WORLD
1.EGO-
IT STANDS FOR FALSE IMAGE OF ONESELF. THIS EMOTION HAS SAME CHARACTERISTIC AS OF TO A PERSON POSSESSED BY GHOSTS.
THE PERSON LIVES IN HIS OWN WORLD OF FANTASIES. THE FANTASY MIGHT BE OF LOOKS, MONEY , MATERIALISTIC THINGS,KNOWLEDGE , EDUCATION, RELATIONSHIPS AND ALL SORT OF STUFF OUT THERE IN THE WORLD WHATEVER PROVIDES HIM/ HER A SIGNIFICANCE AND IN THAT PURSUIT PEOPLE HAVE GONE TO AN EXTENT OF HURTING COUNTLESS LIVES PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, FINANCIALLY.
LET ME EXPLAIN IT WITH EXAMPLES
1.ROAD RAGE- PEOPLE GET INTO FIGHTS SO EASILY JUST TO JUSTIFY THEIR SIGNIFICANCE OVER OTHER INSTEAD OF COOPERATING AND TRYING TO FIND A WAY OUT OF THE LOSS THAT'S INCURRED
2. BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS- EITHER OF THE PARTNER FAILS TO ADJUST OR LET GO OF THE SMALL TRIFLES OCURING IN BETWEEN THEM.
PEOPLE ARE FILING DIVORCE BECAUSE THEY DON'T GET THE FOOD ON TIME, OR DISHES LEFT UNWASHED, TEA NOT ON TIME , NO SURPRISES, NO OUTINGS ANY MORE, FORGOT BIRTHDAY, FORGOT ANNIVERSARY
HOW RIDICULOUS THIS CAN GET?
ALL THE ABOVE MATTERS INDICATES THE NEED FOR SIGNIFICANCE
3.MASS BUNK IN COLLEGES-
SOME STUDENTS TO SHOW THEIR SIGNIFICANCE AND IMPRESS THE TEACHERS RUIN THE MASS BUNK SO THAT STUDENTS CAN COME AND REQUEST TO THEM EVERYTIME WHENEVER THEY PLAN A BUNK. WHICH GIVES THEM A FEELING OF SUPERIORITY OVER THE OTHERS WHO COOPERATE IN MASS BUNK FOR CLASS BENEFIT ON OCCASSIONS OF CONSISTENT FESTIVAL SEASONS AND HOLIDAYS.
4.JOB PROMOTIONS -
PEOPLE CAN STOOP TO ANY LEVEL TO GET THE PROMOTIONS BY STEALING A PERSON'S CREDIT, BLAME GAME , POLITICS , AND ALL OTHERS COUNTLESS WAYS TO EARN SIGNIFICANCE .
5.TAGS GIVEN BY THE SOCIETY-
WORDS SUCH AS EXTRAORDINARY, TALENTED, LUCKY , ETC ALL ARE WORDS FORGED BY THE MEDIA TO SELL THE NEWS. THESE WORDS ARE NOTHING MORE THAN AN ACT OF SIGNIFICANCE DONE TO INCREASE THEIR BUSINESS.
6.AGE-
PEOPLE DON'T WANNA LISTEN TO A PERSON WHO IS JUNIOR TO HIM .
JUST BECAUSE U R BORN EARLIER THAN THE FIRST PERSON DOES NOT GIVE U THE LICENSE TO BE SIGNIFICANT EVERY TIME . IT'S TOTALLY A MATTER OF ABILITY .
AGE IS JUST A NUMBER CRAFTED TO SET LIMITS BY SOME OF INTELLIGENT PEOPLE OUT THERE SO AS TO KEEP THEIR DOMINANCE FOR LONG TIME STATING UR NOT ELIGIBLE, UR TOO YOUNG, UR TOO OLD.
IT'S NOTHING MORE THAN A GIMMICK TO SUSTAIN POWER !!!.
MIND HAS NO LIMITS , ONLY THE BODY DOES.
7.GENDER-
TRYING TO IMPOSE MALE DOMINANCE OR FEMALE DOMINANCE . BOTH ARE HAVING EGOIST MENTALITY. DIFFERING IN SEX ORGANS WON'T MAKE ANYONE SUPERIOR IN ANY SKILL OUT THERE IN THE WORLD.
IT'S JUST APPEARANCE BASED MENTALITY . JUST LIKE JUDGING A BOOK BY ITS COVER WHEN U HAVE NO IDEA WHAT MIRACLES THAT PERSON CAN BRING IN UR LIFE. ONLY WHEN U HAVE SPEND SUFFICIENT TIME TILL U HAVE GONE THROUGH ALL THE ASPECTS OF THE PERSON THEN ONLY LOOK FOR BEING SIGNIFICANT BUT NOT ON LOOKS, GENDER, AGE, SOCIAL STATUS,MONEY AND ALL OTHER FADS OUT THERE
40-50 BOOKS CAN BE WRITTEN ON EGO CITING JUST EXAMPLES.!!!
THE POINT I WANNA CONVEY IS IN ANY OF THE ABOVE EXAMPLE CAN U EVEN SEE A SINGLE PERSON BENEFITTED EXCEPT SPREADING MISUNDERSTANDING AND GROWING EGO ONLY ?
I GUESS NOT
EVEN THE EGOIST IS NOT ACHIEVING ANYTHING. HE/SHE IS JUST A POSSESED GUY WHO IS JUST A MERE PUPPET IN THE HANDS OF EGO WHO IS FOLLOWING ORDERS TO MAKE HIS OWNER HAPPY AND CAN FOLLOW ANY PATH TO KEEP THE BOSS SATISFIED.
AND GUESS WHAT ?
THE CAPTIVE IS DOOMED TO FAIL BECAUSE EGO IS THAT UTENSIL WHICH HAS NO BASE MEANING NO MATTER WHATEVER U DO U CAN'T FILL IT UP!!
MEANING U CAN'T ESCAPE THE BOSS AND NEITHER SATISFY IT !!!
HOW TO FREE UR SELF FROM THE CLUTCHES OF EGO?
VERY SIMPLE
SPEND TIME WITH PEOPLE WHO CAN'T HELP U FINANCIALLY, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY.
EXAMPLE U CAN TEACH STUDENTS FREE WHO ARE FINANCIALLY POOR ON WEEKENDS IN A PARK. .
IF U CANT' DO THAT HELP A FRUIT VENDOR SETTING UP HIS SHOP OR
GIVE UR SEAT IN METRO OR BUS TO THE NEEDY
OR HELP SOMEBODY WHEREVER POSSIBLE IN WHATEVER FORM.
IF U CAN'T HELP ANYONE ATLEAST TALK NICELY TO THE PEOPLE WHO CAN'T HELP U IN ANY FORM.
PEOPLE LIKE ME AND PEOPLE LIKE U WON'T GO OUT IN ISIS CAMPS AND PICK UP GUNS TO KILL PEOPLE.THEY ARE POOR PEOPLE AND HIGHLY DISRESPECTED PEOPLE BY THE SOCIETY WHICH MAKES THEM TAKE SUCH STEPS . THEIR NEED FOR SIGNIFICANCE IS NOT SATISIFIED AND WHO TAKES BENEFIT OF THAT?
THE TERRORIST CAMP LEADER OUT THERE
NOW THEY ARE CAPTIVE OF 2 BOSSES THE LEADER AND THE EGO.
WE ARE HIGHLY CONVENIENCE MOTIVATED PEOPLE. WE WON'T TAKE SUCH STEPS EVEN IF TONNES OF MONEY WE GET.
AND NEITHER DO THEY PAY SO MUCH. THEY KNOW THE POVERTY LEVEL AND TO THOSE PEOPLE IT'S WORTH A LIFETIME OF MONEY.
AND IF THEIR NEED FOR SIGNIFICANCE IS MET. PEOPLE TREAT THEM IN A GOOD WAY IRRESPECTIVE OF THEIR SOCIAL STATUS IN THE SOCIETY THEY WOULD NEVER TAKE SUCH STEPS
EXAMPLE-
PEOPLE IN VILLAGES OF INDIA ARE POOR BUT IF U GIVE THEM MONEY AND ASK THEM TO GET RECRUITED TO ISIS CAMPS THEY WOULD EITHER BEAT U OR SIMPLY REJECT THAT.
WHY ?
MONEY IS A FUCKING TOOL . MONEY CAN GET U TONNES OF THINGS OUT THERE BUT IT CAN'T FETCH U LOVE .
EXAMPLE U CAN BUY A DOG WITH MONEY?
BUT ONLY UR KINDNESS TO THE DOG CAN MAKE HIM WAG HIS TAIL. NO AMOUNT OF MONEY CAN FETCH THAT AND MOST OF THE TIMES THAT 'S ALL WHAT PEOPLE NEED
AND PEOPLE CAN'T EVEN GIVE THAT .
SO TRAGIC IT IS!!!
WHAT PAIN CAN EGO CAN BRING TO HUMANS WOULD HAVE BEEN CLEAR BY NOW
SO ATLEAST STAY HUMBLE IF U CAN'T BE KIND
BEING HUMBLE IS THE PRICE OF FREEDOM FROM EGO!!!
U WILL NEVER SEE ANY EGOIST PERSON DOING SOME "GIVING TASK"
BECAUSE TO THEM SIGNIFICANCE IS IN ATTAINING. MONEY, BECOMING PRETTIER EVERYDAY, MAKING NEW RELATIONSHIP, GETTING ATTENTION, THEY ARE MISERABLE PEOPLE TRYING EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO SATISFY THEIR MASTER.
I WILL BE TALKING ABOUT SOME MORE EMOTIONS IN NEXT POSTS.
STAY HUMBLE AND ALWAYS ASPIRE TO BECOME A KIND HUMAN IN COMING YEARS OF UR LIFE
EVERY LIFE MATTERS
LOVE U GUYS!!!
IF U LIKED IT
PLEASE SHARE IT ON YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS
EVERY MOMENT TO MOMENT IS DECISION IS DIRECTED BY THE EMOTIONS IN MAJORITY OF THE PEOPLE.
FROM CLOTHES WE WEAR , TO THE FOOD WE EAT, TO MAKING FRIENDS AND CREATING RELATIONSHIP MOST OF THE TIME IT'S GUIDED BY EMOTIONAL STATE WE ARE IN.
BUT THE PROBLEM IS THAT THEY ARE NOT VISIBLE .
FOR EXAMPLE
U LOVE UR PARENTS AND U WANNA TELL IT TO A ROBOT .HOW CAN U TELL?
IT'S A RUBBISH QUESTION. LOVE IS NOT SOMETHING TANGIBLE WHICH U CAN SEE OR HEAR IT'S A FEELING THE PERSON FEELS WHENEVER THE NAME OF THAT PERSON ARISES WITH IMAGE IN MIND
U CAN TEACH THE BEHAVIORS ON HOW TO ACT WHEN CERTAIN EMOTIONS ARISE BUT U CANNOT TEACH THE PERSON TO FEEL THE EMOTIONS INSTANTLY.
THAT'S WHY PEOPLE ARE DISAPPOINTED THESE DAYS .
LACK OF UNDERSTANDING CREATES ANXIETY WHICH FURTHER TRIGGERS A CHAIN OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS CREATING MORE PROBLEMS FOR THEMSELVES.
PEOPLE GET HURT MOST OF THE TIME BECAUSE THE PERSON FAILS TO UNDERSTAND THE EMOTIONAL STATE A PERSON IS IN AND KEEPS ON CHANTING THEIR OPINIONS .
I WILL BE DISCUSSING ONE EMOTION IN THIS POST WHICH CREATES MORE DAMAGE IN A PERSON'S LIFE THAN ANY OTHER THING IN THE WORLD
1.EGO-
IT STANDS FOR FALSE IMAGE OF ONESELF. THIS EMOTION HAS SAME CHARACTERISTIC AS OF TO A PERSON POSSESSED BY GHOSTS.
THE PERSON LIVES IN HIS OWN WORLD OF FANTASIES. THE FANTASY MIGHT BE OF LOOKS, MONEY , MATERIALISTIC THINGS,KNOWLEDGE , EDUCATION, RELATIONSHIPS AND ALL SORT OF STUFF OUT THERE IN THE WORLD WHATEVER PROVIDES HIM/ HER A SIGNIFICANCE AND IN THAT PURSUIT PEOPLE HAVE GONE TO AN EXTENT OF HURTING COUNTLESS LIVES PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, FINANCIALLY.
LET ME EXPLAIN IT WITH EXAMPLES
1.ROAD RAGE- PEOPLE GET INTO FIGHTS SO EASILY JUST TO JUSTIFY THEIR SIGNIFICANCE OVER OTHER INSTEAD OF COOPERATING AND TRYING TO FIND A WAY OUT OF THE LOSS THAT'S INCURRED
2. BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS- EITHER OF THE PARTNER FAILS TO ADJUST OR LET GO OF THE SMALL TRIFLES OCURING IN BETWEEN THEM.
PEOPLE ARE FILING DIVORCE BECAUSE THEY DON'T GET THE FOOD ON TIME, OR DISHES LEFT UNWASHED, TEA NOT ON TIME , NO SURPRISES, NO OUTINGS ANY MORE, FORGOT BIRTHDAY, FORGOT ANNIVERSARY
HOW RIDICULOUS THIS CAN GET?
ALL THE ABOVE MATTERS INDICATES THE NEED FOR SIGNIFICANCE
3.MASS BUNK IN COLLEGES-
SOME STUDENTS TO SHOW THEIR SIGNIFICANCE AND IMPRESS THE TEACHERS RUIN THE MASS BUNK SO THAT STUDENTS CAN COME AND REQUEST TO THEM EVERYTIME WHENEVER THEY PLAN A BUNK. WHICH GIVES THEM A FEELING OF SUPERIORITY OVER THE OTHERS WHO COOPERATE IN MASS BUNK FOR CLASS BENEFIT ON OCCASSIONS OF CONSISTENT FESTIVAL SEASONS AND HOLIDAYS.
4.JOB PROMOTIONS -
PEOPLE CAN STOOP TO ANY LEVEL TO GET THE PROMOTIONS BY STEALING A PERSON'S CREDIT, BLAME GAME , POLITICS , AND ALL OTHERS COUNTLESS WAYS TO EARN SIGNIFICANCE .
5.TAGS GIVEN BY THE SOCIETY-
WORDS SUCH AS EXTRAORDINARY, TALENTED, LUCKY , ETC ALL ARE WORDS FORGED BY THE MEDIA TO SELL THE NEWS. THESE WORDS ARE NOTHING MORE THAN AN ACT OF SIGNIFICANCE DONE TO INCREASE THEIR BUSINESS.
6.AGE-
PEOPLE DON'T WANNA LISTEN TO A PERSON WHO IS JUNIOR TO HIM .
JUST BECAUSE U R BORN EARLIER THAN THE FIRST PERSON DOES NOT GIVE U THE LICENSE TO BE SIGNIFICANT EVERY TIME . IT'S TOTALLY A MATTER OF ABILITY .
AGE IS JUST A NUMBER CRAFTED TO SET LIMITS BY SOME OF INTELLIGENT PEOPLE OUT THERE SO AS TO KEEP THEIR DOMINANCE FOR LONG TIME STATING UR NOT ELIGIBLE, UR TOO YOUNG, UR TOO OLD.
IT'S NOTHING MORE THAN A GIMMICK TO SUSTAIN POWER !!!.
MIND HAS NO LIMITS , ONLY THE BODY DOES.
7.GENDER-
TRYING TO IMPOSE MALE DOMINANCE OR FEMALE DOMINANCE . BOTH ARE HAVING EGOIST MENTALITY. DIFFERING IN SEX ORGANS WON'T MAKE ANYONE SUPERIOR IN ANY SKILL OUT THERE IN THE WORLD.
IT'S JUST APPEARANCE BASED MENTALITY . JUST LIKE JUDGING A BOOK BY ITS COVER WHEN U HAVE NO IDEA WHAT MIRACLES THAT PERSON CAN BRING IN UR LIFE. ONLY WHEN U HAVE SPEND SUFFICIENT TIME TILL U HAVE GONE THROUGH ALL THE ASPECTS OF THE PERSON THEN ONLY LOOK FOR BEING SIGNIFICANT BUT NOT ON LOOKS, GENDER, AGE, SOCIAL STATUS,MONEY AND ALL OTHER FADS OUT THERE
40-50 BOOKS CAN BE WRITTEN ON EGO CITING JUST EXAMPLES.!!!
THE POINT I WANNA CONVEY IS IN ANY OF THE ABOVE EXAMPLE CAN U EVEN SEE A SINGLE PERSON BENEFITTED EXCEPT SPREADING MISUNDERSTANDING AND GROWING EGO ONLY ?
I GUESS NOT
EVEN THE EGOIST IS NOT ACHIEVING ANYTHING. HE/SHE IS JUST A POSSESED GUY WHO IS JUST A MERE PUPPET IN THE HANDS OF EGO WHO IS FOLLOWING ORDERS TO MAKE HIS OWNER HAPPY AND CAN FOLLOW ANY PATH TO KEEP THE BOSS SATISFIED.
AND GUESS WHAT ?
THE CAPTIVE IS DOOMED TO FAIL BECAUSE EGO IS THAT UTENSIL WHICH HAS NO BASE MEANING NO MATTER WHATEVER U DO U CAN'T FILL IT UP!!
MEANING U CAN'T ESCAPE THE BOSS AND NEITHER SATISFY IT !!!
HOW TO FREE UR SELF FROM THE CLUTCHES OF EGO?
VERY SIMPLE
SPEND TIME WITH PEOPLE WHO CAN'T HELP U FINANCIALLY, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY.
EXAMPLE U CAN TEACH STUDENTS FREE WHO ARE FINANCIALLY POOR ON WEEKENDS IN A PARK. .
IF U CANT' DO THAT HELP A FRUIT VENDOR SETTING UP HIS SHOP OR
GIVE UR SEAT IN METRO OR BUS TO THE NEEDY
OR HELP SOMEBODY WHEREVER POSSIBLE IN WHATEVER FORM.
IF U CAN'T HELP ANYONE ATLEAST TALK NICELY TO THE PEOPLE WHO CAN'T HELP U IN ANY FORM.
PEOPLE LIKE ME AND PEOPLE LIKE U WON'T GO OUT IN ISIS CAMPS AND PICK UP GUNS TO KILL PEOPLE.THEY ARE POOR PEOPLE AND HIGHLY DISRESPECTED PEOPLE BY THE SOCIETY WHICH MAKES THEM TAKE SUCH STEPS . THEIR NEED FOR SIGNIFICANCE IS NOT SATISIFIED AND WHO TAKES BENEFIT OF THAT?
THE TERRORIST CAMP LEADER OUT THERE
NOW THEY ARE CAPTIVE OF 2 BOSSES THE LEADER AND THE EGO.
WE ARE HIGHLY CONVENIENCE MOTIVATED PEOPLE. WE WON'T TAKE SUCH STEPS EVEN IF TONNES OF MONEY WE GET.
AND NEITHER DO THEY PAY SO MUCH. THEY KNOW THE POVERTY LEVEL AND TO THOSE PEOPLE IT'S WORTH A LIFETIME OF MONEY.
AND IF THEIR NEED FOR SIGNIFICANCE IS MET. PEOPLE TREAT THEM IN A GOOD WAY IRRESPECTIVE OF THEIR SOCIAL STATUS IN THE SOCIETY THEY WOULD NEVER TAKE SUCH STEPS
EXAMPLE-
PEOPLE IN VILLAGES OF INDIA ARE POOR BUT IF U GIVE THEM MONEY AND ASK THEM TO GET RECRUITED TO ISIS CAMPS THEY WOULD EITHER BEAT U OR SIMPLY REJECT THAT.
WHY ?
MONEY IS A FUCKING TOOL . MONEY CAN GET U TONNES OF THINGS OUT THERE BUT IT CAN'T FETCH U LOVE .
EXAMPLE U CAN BUY A DOG WITH MONEY?
BUT ONLY UR KINDNESS TO THE DOG CAN MAKE HIM WAG HIS TAIL. NO AMOUNT OF MONEY CAN FETCH THAT AND MOST OF THE TIMES THAT 'S ALL WHAT PEOPLE NEED
AND PEOPLE CAN'T EVEN GIVE THAT .
SO TRAGIC IT IS!!!
WHAT PAIN CAN EGO CAN BRING TO HUMANS WOULD HAVE BEEN CLEAR BY NOW
SO ATLEAST STAY HUMBLE IF U CAN'T BE KIND
BEING HUMBLE IS THE PRICE OF FREEDOM FROM EGO!!!
U WILL NEVER SEE ANY EGOIST PERSON DOING SOME "GIVING TASK"
BECAUSE TO THEM SIGNIFICANCE IS IN ATTAINING. MONEY, BECOMING PRETTIER EVERYDAY, MAKING NEW RELATIONSHIP, GETTING ATTENTION, THEY ARE MISERABLE PEOPLE TRYING EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO SATISFY THEIR MASTER.
I WILL BE TALKING ABOUT SOME MORE EMOTIONS IN NEXT POSTS.
STAY HUMBLE AND ALWAYS ASPIRE TO BECOME A KIND HUMAN IN COMING YEARS OF UR LIFE
EVERY LIFE MATTERS
LOVE U GUYS!!!
IF U LIKED IT
PLEASE SHARE IT ON YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS
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